Why Having Two Kids Turned Out to Be the Best Decision for Our Family

We always thought we would be a one-child family. We’re a small, nuclear family and life felt pretty balanced when our elder son was born. But then came the pandemic. Our little boy was just two years old, and like every parent during that time, we found ourselves locked indoors, juggling work, home, and parenting all at once. His world had suddenly shrunk to four walls and a screen — cartoons, rhymes, and the occasional video call with family. His social interaction with other kids was almost zero. Watching him talk to the TV instead of other toddlers made us wonder if he was missing out on something bigger — companionship.

At first, we brushed off the idea of having another child. Many of our relatives kept suggesting it, but we smiled, nodded, and moved on. Raising one child felt like enough! But slowly, we started thinking more deeply about it. We read articles, talked to friends, and imagined what life would look like with two kids running around the house. The more we thought about it, the more it made sense — and today, we can say it’s been one of the best decisions we’ve ever made.

The Joy of Having a Sibling
There’s something magical about watching two little humans grow up together. A sibling becomes a built-in best friend, a playmate, and a partner in crime. They learn to share (and sometimes fight), to comfort each other, to make each other laugh, and to figure out the world side by side. The bond they build is unlike anything else — it teaches empathy, teamwork, and patience in ways no adult ever could. Our younger one looks up to his big brother for everything, and our elder son suddenly seems more mature, protective, and gentle. Their laughter fills our home in a way that feels complete.

Why Many Modern Parents Prefer One Child
Of course, we completely understand why many parents today choose to have just one kid. Life has changed — both parents often work, schools and extracurriculars are expensive, and most of us live far from our extended families. With limited time, space, and support, raising even one child can feel overwhelming. Parents also want to give their one child the best opportunities possible — better education, travel experiences, and individual attention. And let’s be honest, the thought of doubling the sleepless nights, diapers, and school admissions can make anyone pause!

How the Elder Shapes the Younger (and Vice Versa)
One of the sweetest things to watch is how our younger one learns by simply observing his big brother. From how to talk, play, and even how to throw a mini tantrum — everything is learned faster with a sibling around! The younger one always wants to do what the elder one does, and it pushes him to grow quicker and become more social. Meanwhile, the elder one loves having someone who actually laughs at his silly jokes and runs behind him all day. It’s like watching a tiny friendship unfold, full of chaos, giggles, and love.

Having two kids might mean a noisier house, more laundry, and double the bedtime stories — but it also means double the hugs, double the fun, and a home filled with warmth and connection. For us, it’s been a beautiful reminder that sometimes, the best things in life come when you least expect them.